You see, it is all about getting more and more grounded in Sadashivatva, which is Existential Reality. You just need to align yourself to the Existential Reality. If you are building up your self-worth based on money, or your girl friend, boy friend or your wealth, or your car, that is what I call 'Matrix personality.' If you are building your self-worth based on integrity, your spiritual ability, your strength, that is what is based on Sadashivatva.