There are many ways. All religions give different ways. You must follow your own path. No one can tell you anything.
Do your own work. I am not master of anyone. I am only my own master. Each is his own master. He must discover the master in him from within. This is the secret.
All are my master. I am learning from everyone. I pick from everyone what I want and pass on, and they too. You must experience this and you will know the Truth.
You can't love others-you can only love yourself.