If I take you as a person, I cannot serve you.
I can only help you because I don't believe you. I don't believe the things you say to be true, when you speak from personhood...
And this is why I can look at you because if I saw you to be something other than what I know in my heart, I could not look at you in the face. I could not love you as I do.
I pray soon you will know that.